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So why doesn't beauty confer ANY protection against a cheating spouse, fiance or boyfriend?

The problem in this situation is you're "the same beauty and guys are hard wired to like novelty," explains Kate White, Editor-in-Chief of Cosmopolitan. "If you look at what men want in nature, it's to spread their seed around."There's that old saying "show me a beautiful women and I'll show you a man who's tired of sleeping with her.""Beautiful women are prey to men who want to use their beauty to elevate their own status. Because of their beauty they're used to being adored, and they are flattered by guys who go completely goo goo for them," explains relationship expert, Dr. Gilda Carle, who has treated many celebrities.The problem is that those guys often don't see beyond their beauty and they don't like it when they wake up one day and see a real person, who has a real problem one day, whether it's a cold or emotional needs. This type of man looked for a woman to make up for his own ego deficiencies, and when he can't get enough of that, he looks elsewhere."

Bonnie Fuller
Huffington Post
May 25 2010