«THERE SHOULD BE COURSE IN FIRST GRADE ON LOVE»

“If other women love you, that’s a bad sign,” Santagati says. “Women who get attention from men are a threat to other women. My guess is that you’re not taking care of yourself or not dressing nearly sexy enough.” See? Stings! “‘Intimidating’ is another way of saying you’re not hot. It doesn’t mean you can’t get hot, but right now you’re not working to your full potential.” Here is what Santagati suggests: “You should totally rethink the way you dress and approach the dating scene. Dress slutty one night and see if this changes things. I’m not saying dress like a tramp all the time, I’m saying go extreme for one day and night and see what happens.”Now that Santagati has you appealing to the mens visually, consider changing your mental approach too. My friend Tom, a cool, straight, feminist man who has been on a red-hot dating streak, says, “She needs to start being a pro at making a guy she likes happy. She should cut down on thinking about what she wants to do and focus on what he likes and how she can make that happen. She should stop listening to the ‘me’ voice in her head and listen to him. Study him. Give him what he wants. If she’s picked the right guy, the reward is that she’ll get the same back in return. And then, bingo! Boyfriend.”

-EYE WEEKLY