«THERE SHOULD BE COURSE IN FIRST GRADE ON LOVE»

Brian Moylan's guide for straight friends of gays addresses that last concern: If we ask you if a guy is hot, you have to respond. Don't give us that socially conditioned, "Oh, I don't look at guys like that," bullshit. We're not asking you to hold his dick, just give us a gauge of how handsome he is. We know whether or not a girl is smokin', and you won't think twice about asking us, so we expect the same in return.

-Andrew Sullivan
The Atlantic