«WOMEN IN REVOLT»

Stacey Anderson is a successful Scottsdale real-estate agent and mother of four kids. Add another label to the 40-year-old blonde's resume: She is the star of the new TV Land reality show called "The Cougar.""The cougar definition doesn't bother me," she says cheerfully. "I don't have an issue with it. I had a really lot of amazing experiences with the guys, a lot of laughter and tears and bonding."those who may be slang-impaired out there, "cougar" refers to a woman who dates men several years her junior. Cougars are hardly a rare breed on television: Courteney Cox Arquette is filming an upcoming sitcom called "Cougar Town," and older-woman/ younger-man relationships have played out on "One Tree Hill," "Desperate Housewives" and "Lipstick Jungle."In Anderson's show, she takes her pick from a group of 20 men, all in their 20s.